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June 2011 |
Change
By Christine McFarlane
Change
only comes
When you are ready
Change
Is like the transformation of each new
season
A rebirth
If you let yourself believe
Change
Only comes
When you are ready
Sometimes it can be unexpected
And make you feel scared
But tell yourself
It is for the better
Allow yourself
To keep an open mind
And trust your heart
Life gives you only what
You can handle
Change
It can help make you stronger
Help you to let go
And move on
Change
Only comes
When you are ready
I am ready today.
About the Author
Christine McFarlane is a First Nations woman who lives in Toronto, Ontario Canada. She writes about issues that are not only close to her but to what others in recovery have experienced.
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Dear Readers,
Christine McFarlane visiting
Lindsey and Leigh in 2006.
Almost 20 years ago I answered a phone call from a young woman from Canada who was hospitalized for an eating disorder. She found Gürze's number in a copy of our Eating Disorders Resource Catalogue she had picked up there, and we started up a recovery-based friendship.
Over the years we stayed in touch while she was in and out of treatment for anorexia nervosa and other related disorders. Christine McFarlane worked hard on deep-rooted personal issues and has written about her journey in various First Nations publications. We've published her poetry, including "Change" (lower left), and prose in the Eating Disorders Recovery Today newsletter.
Next week, Leigh and I will be attending Christine's graduation from the University of Toronto where she majored in aboriginal studies. Her story of perseverance, dedication to recovery, and willingness to confront a painful past is truly inspirational. Congratulations, Christine! May your story encourage others to take that first step.
In love, Lindsey
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Andrea's Voice...Silenced by Bulimia:
Her Story and Her Mother's Journey Through Grief Toward Understanding.
By Doris Smeltzer with Andrea Lynn Smeltzer
From the Introduction
Our family's experience taught me that a sufferer's loved ones and caregivers can hold the lifelines toward recovery. Each of us must do our own internal work and discover what our relationship is to the disease. When all of us—Mom, Dad, siblings, friends and caregivers know these inner processes, we are much better able to be genuinely helpful and better able to cope with our own emotions throughout. I have chosen to share my inner processes, knowing that the most challenging part of this disease, for all involved, is internal.
What are the emotions with which the person with bulimia struggles? What are the feelings their loved ones face? There is no way to heal except through recognizing and dealing with all of these emotions. And there is no way to do that except by allowing ourselves to be vulnerable and open. So when it came to writing this book, that is what I was determined to do. In the pages that follow, I share my and our daughter's journey into the mysteries of both the disease and our internal workings, hoping that these inward glances may allow readers to peer carefully within themselves as well.
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